Day 23: Still Dog sitting

Still dog sitting. She is lovely and it’s nice having the ever loving, ever forgiving presence of a dog in my life. But my goodness, she is A LOT of work. She is adorable and sweet and ALWAYS WANTS TO PLAY. Our schedule is as follows:

6 AM – A walk in the morning after she shoves her wet nose in my face. (At least half an hour.)

6:45 AM – Coffee for me. Breakfast for her, which she does not eat and picks at through the day. -_-

8:30 AM – Quick walk to pee before I go to work. (10-15 minutes around the block. Depends on how fast I feel like walking.)

6 PM – Long walk to burn off all that energy from sleeping all day (30 minutes) OR a quick walk and then an hour long trip to the dog park.

7:30 PM – Time to eat.

8:30 PM – TIME TO PLAY. GOSH I’M SO EXCITED YOU’RE HOME. TIME TO PLAYYYYYYYY.

9:30 PM – Another long walk (30 minutes) And bed.

I barely have time to do much else besides take care of her. I’m rather glad she’s going back home this weekend, although I’m sure I’ll miss her when she’s gone. Absence does make the heart grow fonder.

If nothing else, I’ve realized how much time I have on my hands and how much of it I spend puttering around not working on the things I want to be working on. (Plus I get many, many steps in.) And now it’s almost time for our last long walk of the day before we head to bed.

Until tomorrow.

Day 20: One Minute at a Time

So back on track! Still dog sitting and still tired, but I’m back on track for now. And I’m sure I’ll miss a day tomorrow or next week, but for now I am here and I am writing.

And that’s pretty much the secret to my editing success. Originally I would set a timer for one minute and then write, write, write and then after sixty seconds I was done. You really can do anything for a minute. While it was tempting to do more than one minute, I get easily deterred and discouraged if I did half an hour the day before, but couldn’t manage it the next day. But I can do one minute every day – squeeze it in before I go to work, while I’m cooking or right before I go to bed. Easy peasy. And then suddenly you have a habit.

I’ve slowly been upping the amount of time I edit, so at the moment I’m at seven minutes. It doesn’t seem like a lot (and it’s not really), but something is better than nothing. I’m chipping away at the pages of my book slowly, but surely – one minute at a time.

Day 16: Be Focused

Nothing really to report today that I didn’t say yesterday. I talk a lot about my goal of exercising more and I think that’s because it’s the one goal I find hardest to work on. They’re all hard, but for whatever reason that one in particular is the hardest.

Writing is hard too, but I can do it without leaving my apartment, so I don’t think about it as much. I wrote a book, or rather I’m still writing a book. Editing away. Day after day after day. Some days I make more headway than others.

When I started writing it was all stops and starts, but then I realized that I find targets really helpful. I set up my little word counter in my writing program and it has a little bar that turns from red to orange to green as the number of words you write goes up. Then – Ding Ding! – and 500 words later I was all done! (Yes, there was a literal ding ding. It’s the reward signal.)

I find editing much harder than writing. Writing flows out of my fingers pours out onto the page, but editing is like getting into the weeds. Everything needs to be pulled out and redone – whole chapters, whole paragraphs, turns of phrase, adjectives.  Everything is wrong. Maybe something is almost right, or could be right, but most things need fixing. It’s hard. But I found a solution,

I downloaded a timer called Be Focused. It’s a Chrome extension and is one of the many timer apps which is supposed to help you utilize the Pomodoro technique. That’s twenty-five minutes on and the a five minute break. Twenty-five minutes isn’t so daunting as 250 pages. Although it can be a little daunting. More on that later.

Until tomorrow.

 

Day 5: 100 Blocks

Have you seen this? It’s from Wait But Why.

I saved it on my computer ages ago and every so often I’ll stumble across it and fill it out again. The idea is that your waking hours are broken into 10 minute chunks and every chunk or block you have you’re making a decision about how to spend it. So you fill out the chart and then you can see how you spend your minutes, your hours and your days.

It really is fascinating to see it all laid out before you – all the minutes wasted (or not) on Netflix. The huge chunk of time that a 9 to 5 (ahem – 6 or 7) job takes up. How much time it takes to cook and clean and generally be an adult and get done all things you have to do to be considered “responsible”.

(Hint: You really only have about three hours of free time if you sleep 8 hours, work a regular job and take care of all the things you need to.)

And here’s where it comes to deciding. Is watching one hour of TV worth five blocks? Is cooking (and then washing up) worth five or six? It’s laid out before you all the time you do and do not waste, and then it’s up to you if you want to continue to live your days in the same way. An excellent, more detailed companion to the article I mentioned a few days ago – How to Live Wisely. Happy blocking!

 

Until tomorrow.

Day 4: Oops

Miss Fisher
I want her hat. And her lipstick.

Oops! Day 4 and I already skipped a day of blogging! I don’t even have a good excuse. Just watching Miss Fisher’s Murder Mysteries. It’s just so good. (If you haven’t seen it go watch it now!) This is why I try not to watch TV on the weeknights.

Sometimes I think I spread myself too thin. It’s why I had to write down a list of my goals – the things I really, truly want to accomplish in the next year. I just tend to overestimate what I can do in a day. Here’s my list: French lessons, write, meditate, blog, stretch, read, journal, clean, photography class and floss. I’m trying to make all of these into habits, but each one chips away some willpower throughout the day so when I try to get things done at night, I’m too tired. (Plus work chips away a whole lot of willpower.)

Luckily, I’ve already turned French into a habit. I’ve been doing it steadily for the past six months and so now when I wake up in the morning I don’t even have to think about it. I accidentally skip a day here and there, but for the most part it gets done with no problem and no thought or willpower drainage. The power of habits!

So now my plan has changed. Instead of trying to do everything, I’m just going to focus on one or two things and make them into a habit. Then I can add more and more and stack them up until I have them all. 🙂

Since I want to have my book on the way to being published in the next year I think the most important focus is writing.

Until tomorrow.

Day 2: Life Gaps

Every morning I get up and I read the news. Sometimes I only read the arts section or do the crossword puzzle, or some days I immerse myself deeply in all the the goings on of the world. I miss somethings some days, and other things other days, but without fail I always read the articles about improving your life. (Clearly this is an interest of mine.)

Several years ago a read an article called How To Live Wisely. It’s a pretty typical article about improving your life, but there was one thing which struck me. And that’s to make a list. Well, actually two. First, make a list of activities or things you highly value and then track how you actually spend your time. Do they match up? For me they rarely do. And I think for most people they rarely do.

For some reason I’ve taken to calling these Life Gaps – how I wish I spent my time vs. How I actually spend my time (more on that tomorrow). Part of the point of this blog is to try and make sure they match up more in the future than they do now. And of course that’s not everything, but it is important to remember:

“How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives.

– Annie Dillard